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Reflection - How Embracing Disgust Can Spark Personal Growth and Lead to Meaningful Transformation

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Exploring the Power of Disgust through Reflection


Disgust is an emotion we often shy away from. It's uncomfortable, and unsettling, and can evoke powerful reactions. Yet, like all emotions, disgust has a purpose. It signals that something is wrong, out of place, or potentially harmful. While avoiding situations that disgust us might be tempting, embracing and understanding this emotion can lead to significant personal growth. Today, I’ll share my experience with disgust and explore how it has helped me become more self-aware, resilient, and compassionate.


My Encounter with Disgust

A few years ago, I experienced a situation that triggered a deep sense of disgust. I was attending a social event when I overheard a conversation filled with prejudice and hatred. The words struck me like a physical blow, and I felt a visceral reaction—my stomach churned, my skin crawled, and I wanted to distance myself from the conversation as quickly as possible. The intensity of my disgust was overwhelming, and it lingered long after the event had ended.


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At first, I tried to push the emotion away, convincing myself that it was a fleeting feeling. But as days passed, I realized that this experience of disgust was more than just a reaction to a repulsive situation—it was a wake-up call. It forced me to reflect on my values, my boundaries, and how I navigate the world around me.


Understanding the Role of Disgust

Disgust is often linked to our moral compass. It’s a protective mechanism that helps us avoid things that might cause harm, whether physical, emotional, or social. When we feel disgusted by something, it’s usually because it clashes with our core beliefs or threatens our sense of well-being.


In my case, the disgust I felt was tied to a deep-seated belief in equality and respect for all individuals. The conversation I overheard violated these principles, triggering a strong emotional response. Instead of viewing disgust as a negative emotion, I began to see it as a guidepost, highlighting areas in my life that required attention and action.


How Disgust Can Lead to Growth

  1. Self-Awareness: Experiencing disgust can prompt us to examine our values more closely. Why did this situation trigger such a strong reaction? What does it say about what matters most to us? By asking these questions, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and what we stand for.

  2. Setting Boundaries: Disgust often signals that something is wrong. It can help us identify situations or behaviors that we find unacceptable and encourage us to set clear boundaries. In my experience, the disgust I felt reinforced the importance of standing up against prejudice, even if it meant stepping out of my comfort zone.

  3. Building Resilience: Facing situations that evoke disgust can be challenging, but it also builds resilience. By confronting uncomfortable emotions, we learn to manage them more effectively. Over time, this strengthens our ability to handle difficult situations with grace and composure.

  4. Fostering Compassion: Interestingly, disgust can also lead to greater compassion. When we recognize what we find intolerable, we can develop empathy for others who may experience similar emotions. This empathy can motivate us to advocate for change and support those who are affected by the issues that trigger our disgust.



Conclusion


Disgust is not an emotion we typically celebrate, but it plays a crucial role in our emotional landscape. My experience with disgust taught me valuable lessons about self-awareness, boundaries, resilience, and compassion. Instead of shying away from this uncomfortable emotion, I’ve learned to embrace it as a tool for personal growth.


This is why Coach Ignatius developed Emotions-Based Coaching. He uses Emoli Cards to help clients explore the stories behind their emotions, integrating this with Calm3D, an immersive mood management tool, alongside personalized life coaching sessions.


The next time you encounter something that triggers disgust, take a moment to reflect on what it’s telling you. What does it reveal about your values and beliefs? How can you use this emotion to grow as an individual? By understanding and embracing disgust, we can transform it from a source of discomfort into a catalyst for positive change.





Reflections by Bev Cuayzon

Bev, a devoted mother at heart, finds joy in working from home. Balancing her roles as a travel consultant, self-published author, and SEO analyst, she's deeply passionate about sharing her knowledge to empower others, particularly fellow mothers. During her journey, Bev discovered the importance of mental wellness. She realized that maintaining a healthy mind is essential for navigating the demands of work, family, and personal pursuits.


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